Dear Bear: Why do I feel unlovable?

No. 599, David Hockey, 2020

ive always struggled w thinking that im unlovable, and that ppl around me, including my friends, dont like me secretly. how do i get rid of this idea and become more confident?

Hi Bear,

You don’t feel lovable because you’re obsessed with what other people think of you. You’re mired deep inside yourself, turning over other people…