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larry's avatar

It’s fascinating to me how quickly that feeling of quietness always seems to replace the sleepless nights immediately after I go through a life decision like moving or quitting a job.

It’s like a constant stream of internal second-guessing for months leading up to the decision. Late nights ruminating over where those alternate paths might lead.

But then after following through on the decision, the quietness sinks in. The mind stops being as restless. As if the mind can’t bear juggling all those alternate fantasies by itself, but once we’ve finally chosen one, it can settle.

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Charlotte Jackson's avatar

I really love this quote:

"Lately I’ve been struck a sense of unusual clarity. It feels like a fever breaking. It’s not clarity in the sense that I’ve been hit by a big revelation—more just that I feel newly equipped to assess my reality. I see what’s working and what isn’t."

I've been feeling this lately too and the language that you put to it makes me feel even more confident in leaning in.

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