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Michael's avatar

"The Genesis of Shame" by J. David Velleman is an interesting read.

His argument is that we are all social creatures, so we naturally want to maintain control of our self-presentation and our social image. Shame is the particular emotion we feel when this control is taken from us, for any reason.

I think he makes a strong case that this is correct; it explains a lot of cases where people feel shame even though they rationally "shouldn't".

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Erik Goldman's avatar

your writing is unbelievably powerful and resonant. I feel so lucky to have found your newsletter!

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