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Canwen Xu's avatar

Have you read Dostoyevsky’s Notes From Underground? He makes a different point (on the same topic) that humans will act counter to their self interest to validate their existence

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Have gone through a roller coaster of emotions with the phrase “you have what you want”, originally being frustrated and partially terrified with the notion that one is helpless to their “base/impulsive wants” in life.

Yet the more I’ve focused on it, the more I’ve come to the acceptance that it is quite profound to accept that the things you “seek” are consistent with your personality/DNA/subconscious self, and instead of fighting it one should pay more attention to what is being sought and why. It reminds me of this interview with Steven Spielberg I’d like to share:

“Dreams always come from behind you, not right between your eyes. It sneaks up on you. But when you have a dream, it doesn't often come at you screaming in your face, "This is who you are, this is what you must be for the rest of your life." Sometimes a dream almost whispers. And I've always said to my kids, the hardest thing to listen to—your instincts, your human personal intuition—always whispers; it never shouts. Very hard to hear. So you have to every day of your lives be ready to hear what whispers in your ear; it very rarely shouts. And if you can listen to the whisper, and if it tickles your heart, and it's something you think you want to do for the rest of your life, then that is going to be what you do for the rest of your life, and we will benefit from everything you do.“

I’ve accepted, that for me at least, the phrase “you get what you want”, is a reminder to pay attention to the “whispers” that ultimately are trying to guide you towards what is true to you.

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