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David Nebinski's avatar

Thank you for this! Very timely!

Daniel Morgado's avatar

Thank you so much. I enjoy reading you a lot. It makes life worth living.

Brun-Jin 「ブルンジン」's avatar

I'm realizing how much practice it takes to find your true desires and overcome the ppl pleasing habits deeply ingrained in me

Grace Drigo's avatar

Wise advice 🫶

Felix Michael's avatar

❤️❤️❤️

Chris Lakin's avatar

Conflict is fun!!

Juan David Campolargo's avatar

Clarity over confusion, self-respect over approval.

Jimena's avatar

Wow, that last one!

pathik's avatar

concise, grounded and resonant! i like how this write up stays minimal without losing weight. practical yet not shallow!

Nick Moore's avatar

This is packed with wisdom. I will say, though, as someone finally extricating themselves from a relationship that's gone bad, I deeply appreciate the people who were willing to say so more than once and not move on. Deeply appreciative.

Ava's avatar

high risk high reward activity 🙈

doomguy's avatar

>people pleasing is an deep-seated addiction

what about it looks like addiction?

are most anxious behaviors addictive in nature?