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Kiersten Figurski's avatar

As a psychotherapist - uhoh! LOL

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All Our Secrets's avatar

This perfectly sums up my past relationship: wanting to change your partner, getting attached to their problems, getting lost in a cycle of codependency, and unconsciously repeating the very same red flags you swore to change! I’ve learned since then to see people as they are, at this moment, and not who you want them to be or who they still can be. Still a lot to process from that relationship and this article is a nudge to stay on track. Thank you!

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