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Chloe's avatar

Yeah love this. Though it's not the same thing, it reminds me of Heide Priebe's distinction between Growing Pain and Shrinking Pain

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWEB3jfeBzc

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Kate's avatar

This is something I have been thinking about a lot lately, and you put it into words far more eloquently then I ever could. the classifieds are so cute.

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Prakash ⚡ பிரகாஷ்'s avatar

Neengalla yaru? Ivvalo naal enga irundheenga? That is my reaction in my native language after reading your article!!

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DANNY's avatar

Yeah i’ve been fighting an internal battle on this, thanks for putting so eloquently into words. My family are based half a world away from me and i am constantly feeling fomo / guilty about missing milestones, watching my niece and nephew grow up from afar. And yet for my own career and self i know i belong here in london too. It’s tough

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Linda's avatar

I love it when a gift keeps on giving (or is reproduced in a fruitful way). I have a dear friend who is struggling with the loss of a parent and experiencing resentment over some obligations related to family members, and I had shared some thoughtful advice yesterday. This was the perfect compliment to that advice, and she was profoundly grateful!

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Georgina's avatar

Yay for classfieds sessions!!

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duda's avatar

love the post and found the classifieds session so cute hahaha

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